I think I have a obsession that is turning me into a dominatrix. How do I stop this?

I am overly consumed with being orally pleasured to the point where I seek it from various sources, men and women, and I look at these people as merely slaves for my own pleasure and dispose of them afterward or until I need my next fix. I have recently been looking into finding a submissive man or female to just use as a slave. I know this is not normal and I don't know how this started but how do I stop this?